Drama

How often do you hear that womyn can be so dramatic. That we cause so much drama in our lives and in other people’s lives. That men just aren’t as dramatic as womyn. I don’t think I need to expand on this stereotype. Thing is I think this stereotype couldn’t be more wrong.

Have you ever sat in a legislature or parliament to witness how the people who represent us make political decision for everyone? And I probably don’t have to point out the fact that most of these people just so happen to be men. They yell, they scream, they call each other names. It’s worse than a classroom, any classroom. Even in a classroom with a substitute teacher, students create less drama.

Then there’s war. How can war not be dramatic. It is drama pushed to the extreme. Do we really need to take out our big guns to risk killing people, destroying families and wasting money that could instead be invested in education, health care, poverty issues? Over what? Over territory, religion, natural resources, power? Really? Really! Really.

I say quit your drama, quit dramatizing your power struggles and just maybe we could live with less damaging drama and more harmony.  Less soldiers more peace keepers! And please stop saying womyn are more dramatic because if womyn ruled this world drama wouldn’t be as violently dramatic. Period.

From ninjawitch's t-shirt series: It's Time the Period Came Out of the Closet

Another example of why periods make this world a better place.

This posting was inspired by an exchange I had with a childhood friend of mine who’s courage I honour greatly.

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A Powerful Piece of Feminism

Powerful poetry by Kendra Urdang

This piece is powerful in that it brings extremes of brilliant empowerment and disabling hatred. Some of the comments left on the youtube site “telling the world what they think about feminism” are literally mad, revealing the hatred of some men towards womyn. Pretty much proves her fervent point.

YouTube comments

vbritsi (5 days ago)

this woman is a typical leftist bitch. people like her use bogus statistics to claim that a billion women are raped every milli-second and that all men are collectively responsible for it

chrpowell (1 week ago)

bitch needs to shut up and make me a sandwich.

Feminism is just like the Ku Klux Klan, except they hate men instead of black people.

pinetree65
Feminism is just another garden-variety hate movement. Going on and on about how horrible the male half of humanity isn’t “empowring.” It’s bigotry.

TheRainbowRapist (1 month ago)

If women were in the house cooking and cleaning, their chances of being raped would be reduced significantly. So really feminists themselves are indirectly responsible for allowing a large percentage of rapes to occur.

westmeaty

give a feminist cunt the snooki punch of her life: manhood101 . com

Being a womyn in 2010

In honour of today, International Womyn’s Day, I thought I would keep my pj’s on, skip the make-up, go out to a coffee shop and share my thoughts on being a womyn at age 34 in 2010.

The best thing about being a 34 year old womyn is being 34.

I can’t imagine how, in my twenties, I would have dealt with the physical aspects of acquiring wrinkles (not only on my face but on my hands, feet and other places), larger pores, cellulite, more facial hair, stretch marks and a permanent crinkly nose.

I wish upon a star for all womyn to embrace aging, it opens our eyes and brings us great strength!

I can’t imagine how someone who romanticized the idea of fairy tales would have faced a fortune teller telling them that at age 34, they would be childless, husbandless and living in an above average male dominated town that let’s their trucks idle in the parking lot for an hour while they eat.

I can’t imagine that I would have believed that I couldn’t be all that I could be.

I didn’t imagine that I would end up being second to man.

I grew up with a strong independent mother. I went to an all girls high school with progressive nuns and when I was a kid I believed I could do anything a boy could do. I was very athletic and would outrun them on many occasions. I believed equality of gender was a right, not a privilege. I believed it was a way of being.

The more I age, the more I recognize I was wrong. I was misled. I wasn’t prepared to live in a male dominated world where almost every single aspect is more influenced by top down male dominating power. Religion, government, security forces, business, marketing, spiritual leaders, education, health care, sports, real-estate and even activism. Albeit I recognize there are more teachers and nurses that are womyn but those in ultimate decision making power positions are principals, school board trustees, doctors and are more predominantly male.

side note: I researched yoga philosophies this year and wanted to find one that was created by a womyn. I had the hardest time finding this. Although there are many more female yoga practitioners than males, there are many more yoga founded philosophy practices created by men than womyn. There are so many examples of this in our society.

Although I put on a brave face and pretend on most days that I am living in a world where womyn and male energies share the power of influence on our culture, our decisions, our evolution, beneath it all, I hurt and am angry but somehow have the strength to not let it push me down further.

I see us working on all these worthy causes: environment, war, poverty etc… and I recognize these as important issues however I am realizing more than ever that these are symptoms of a larger problem. A problem we see as being less than many of the causes I have mentioned above.

How many womyn do you know resort to physical violence to solve a problem?

How many womyn do you know throw out their garbage outside a car window?

How many womyn do you know murder?

How many womyn to you know express great sensitivity and compassion?

How many womyn do you know nurture life on a regular basis?

I’m not asking these questions with the purposes of finding black and white answers because they aren’t. It is not because someone is male that he resorts to more physical violence than his female neighbour just because he is male. However generally speaking there are differences between male and female energy and I believe these differences are there for a reason and are equally worthy of being.

When the sperm meets the egg, they are both different entities yet equally important, 50/50. Their balance creates life.

It is my realization at 34 years old that if this world worked on achieving a fair, equal and harmonies balance between female and male energy it would have a greater effect on all worthy causes. There would be less wars, there would be less environmental destruction, there would be less poverty, there would be less “survival of the fittest mentality”. It would be a better place. A place that is possible because we have the womyn on this earth to make it possible. All we need to do is invite them in, implement their ideas, elect them in office, offer them positions of power and ensure gender parity in all realms of life.

I have to address the Margaret Thatcher argument because I predict she will cross many people’s minds in that: Well she was elected, she believed in wars, she was no different, why would other womyn be? First of all we must realized, we live in a man’s world, we are acculturated to think like them, behave like them, please them! and many believe in order to “make it” you need to act as a man. It some ways we have become assimilated.

Change takes time, cultural shifts takes time, freeing a womyn in all absolute sense takes time. In my opinion it would take many generations before we would actually witness the beautiful effects of womyn being right alongside men while making the biggest decisions on this planet and in our communities. There are many layers masking us. It will take generations for the mask to peel off and reveal its beautiful self.

Thanks 34 years for revealing to me the wisdom that comes with aging as a womyn and giving me the skills to deal with hurt and sadness in a way that doesn’t further take away from me.

Happy Womyn’s Day to all womyn irrelevantly of who you are and how great you are. You are courageous just by the mere fact of being a womyn on this earth.

Here’s an amazing documentary on the herstory of womyn and what this world may have looked like, felt like, when womyn and men ruled side by side. You will find this under the herstory tab. It was produced by the National Film Board of Canada.